The description of love in 1 Corinthians 13 includes a list of what love is not. 1 Corinthians 13:5 reminds us that love is not rude. Depending on the translation of the Bible you have it may say that love “does not dishonor others” (NIV), “does not act improperly” (HCSB), or “does not behave rudely” (NKJ). The Greek phrase could literally be translated “does not act unbecomingly” or “does not act inappropriately.” Christian love does not seek to cause problems, and it does not belittle others. Christian love involves choosing appropriate actions and responses that help other people.
Rudeness is finding more and more acceptance in today’s culture. Public behavior and words that were unthinkable a generation ago are now commonplace. The fact is that rudeness is rooted in selfishness. Manners are meant to reduce the friction of human interaction; discourtesy reveals a lack of consideration for others. The ill-mannered person is communicating that “it’s all about me.” Love, by contrast, cannot be selfish, for the simple reason that love is concerned for the other person’s well-being. Therefore, love is not rude.
Looking forward to being back in time for singing night this Wednesday! Praying everyone has a great week!
In Christ,
Gary T. & Family